How To Do An Intervention

You have come to this blog because you are considering weight loss surgery or you are a loved one of some considering weight loss surgery. If you get the facts on weight loss surgery from this and other unbiased sources you will find out that weight loss surgery is a terrible solution to a problem that can be fixed in a safe and sane manner

The chances of your fatling reforming his or her piggish habits are slim and none. There are ways to motivate and get people to do the right thing but it takes an intervention of sorts. I would suggest that you watch the show Intervention and observe the behavior of junkies and the frustration of their love ones. You will undoubtedly see parallels. It can be quite maddening. 

I can explain how it is done but it takes examples, a support system, preparation, and the ability to learn strategies. It takes a skilled interventionist running the show and since there are no interventionists that work with gluttons you have to become that interventionist. 

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The behaviors of the druggie or drunk are pretty much like the behaviors of the glutton but with some major differences. First, a person can live without drugs or booze but we humans need food, water, and air. Food is not considered a dangerous drug but it kills more people than all the drugs and booze combined. Also, the very thing that is there to sustain life has become addictive, unhealthy and deadly. 

When confronting your glutton you will be met with the same resistance as you would if you confronted a junkie or a drunk. You will be met with denial, lying, hostility, the excuses, and the guilt. Addicts are very unpleasant people for the most part and your impulse may be to slap the shit out of them which would work but in this PC world we can't legally do that. We have to be clever and use verbal judo.

An intervention usually includes the following steps:

Make a plan. A family member or friend proposes an intervention and forms a planning group. ... 

Gather information. ... 

Form the intervention team. ... 

Decide on specific consequences. ... 

Make notes on what to say. ... 

Hold the intervention meeting. ... 

Follow up. 

You can't be concerned about hurting their feeling because they are going to play the victim card in an attempt to turn you into the bad guy and to garner sympathy but the truth is, they don't care about your feelings or the damage their behavior does to you, your relationship your kids.  Keep in mind your fatling is a masterful manipulator who knows how to push your buttons so you have to make your behavior during an intervention unpredictable, cool, calm and collected. 

Before you try this watch some interventions on TV or Youtube and watch them with your team. You may fail the first time but you may succeed eventually. You have to decide if it is worth the effort. 

http://www.aetv.com/shows/intervention


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Only A Fool Would Pay a Surgeon To Destroy Their Digestive System

If you're fat, it has nothing to do with your digestive system. Your digestive system is not the problem. Having gastric bypass surgery because you eat too much instead of controlling your eating the responsible and old-fashioned way is like going to a doctor because you bite your fingernails and then having the Dr. cut off your fingers. Removing your currently healthy digestive system simply because lack the will or the ambition to learn how to eat correctly and do it is insanity. Any Dr. who recommend or perform gastric bypass surgery is a piece of shit.

What you are doing is a choice. Every morsel of food you shove into your mouth is a result of a choice. When you choose this behavior you choose a consequences and you know the consequences of obesity are bad health. The pleasure that you derive from food far outweighs your sense of social and personal responsibility. There is a word for people like you, is called glutton. So take a good look in the mirror and tell that person staring back at you that he or she to the greedy and selfish glutton. The first stepped in solving a problem is to correctly identify diet and then own it. Grow up in on the fact that you are glutton.

You need to ask yourself whether your perceived inability to learn proper nutrition and apply it to your lifestyle is a matter of can't or a matter of won't. If you are even half way honest you know that it's a matter of won't but because you're poor impulse control and because you're intellectually lazy and intellectually dishonest you will probably let some slick moneygrubbing Dr. talk you into the barbaric procedure known as weight loss surgery.

Obesity has proven many things about your character. It proves that you choose blissful ignorance over knowledge. It proves that you place your hedonistic pleasure above your loved ones. Your obesity proves that food is more important to you than your spouse. Your lust for food is clearly stronger than your love for your children.

If you get gastric bypass surgery there is a one in 50 chance that you will die within 30 days of the procedure. Most surgeons will not tell you that. There industry will tell you that the mortality rate is 100 or one in 200. There industry for the bunch of liars.

If you get gastric bypass surgery and you survive you will face a life of malnutrition and constant digestive problems such as dumping syndrome. You are never addressed the reasons for why you behave in such a blatantly selfish manner.

Here you go stupid... You need to eat less any need to move more and when you do that you will lose weight. If you never remember anything in your miserable life remember this. If you are a female and you eat 2000 cal a day the most weight you can maintain his 140 pounds. If you are active you will be able the maintain much less. If you are a man and you eat 2500 cal a day the most weight you'll be able to maintain his 160 pounds. If you're active you'll be able to maintain much less weight. That's reality and if anybody tells you anything different than that they are a liar and or and idiot and if you believe them you are an idiot so maybe you should pay that surgeon $60,000 to fuck you up.